Lots of great things happening for me at work (surprise, surprise). My students are amazing, and I'd adopt all of them if I could--though, I may be looking to adopt [one] in five or so years. I wanna go all Angelina Jolie on somebody's third world country . . . or perhaps my very own ridiculously rich one. Anyway; I've been harassed by Justin Corvasce long enough, and am giving anyone leeway to look him up and send kind words. Here's a peek at our last exchange of thoughts (once he learned of my OkCupid):
Justin to me: Oh my gosh, no! (sarcasm) Like I said.. you are a joke. You act like you are still a teen. If you didnt care so much you shouldnt reply. And, what you said is so ridiculous..it's distgusting. You are a shitty person.
Response: A "shitty" person to someone like you--an offensive, obsessive, stranger--yes. The problem stems from the fact that I did not cut ties with you from the beginning, and proceeded to add you on facebook. If there's one thing this ridiculous scenario has reiterated, it's simply that I cannot try to be some type of friend to everyone. Furthermore; just because your stupid opinion holds zero weight, doesn't mean I won't rise to my own defense in lieu of your string of painstakingly lame-ass insults. Get over yourself, and move on.
He originally called me a "joke" because I frankly spoke of no longer wanting to meet him. He remained sexually inappropriate, and made me uneasy--I'm not going to meet a sex-hungry freak. He also eventually became hostile and scary, and wouldn't stop messaging me. I've blocked this man on three different websites. I wish he didn't live nearby. Not far from involving family and cops. My fault for being too friendly and trusting.
p.s. Constant personal attacks display weakness and a seemingly general inability to methodically win an argument. Rise above, people, rise above.
I know exactly who you are referring to. Lives in Florida and likes coffee and golf right? Yes, he and I talked several months before when I was 18 (I'm 24 now) and I eventually began to see his obsessive, narcissistic, sexually inappropriate, stalking behavior. He tried to convince me to delete all my friends online and keep only him, etc. I told him I was stopping our talks, and so he called my place of work (high-end golf club) 90 times in one evening, during a wedding event there no less -and my manager even repeatedly told him not to call there again. It was so scary, in fact, that I did get police involved and had them sent there to his house and had a restraining order issued against him. Believe me I doubt the police aren't blind to this man's rage and behavior. Never heard from him again thankfully- and blocked him from everything. It's interesting to see that this behavior has not changed in him- I'm terribly sorry you had to go through that. I know first hand how he is. I'm just thankful you had the wise sense to quickly kick him to the curb and stay far away.
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